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Why are Inheritance Conversations Necessary?

Having an estate plan prepared by an experienced estate planning attorney is nowhere near as challenging as having conversations with adult children about your intentions. However, not having the conversation is a major mistake. The big wealth transfer between generations has led to a rise in litigation over inheritances, according to an article from The Wall Street Journal, “Hash Out the Inheritance Now, or Fight Your Family Later.”

Typical fights? The child who stayed in their hometown to care for Mom versus the one who left to live out their dreams on the opposite coast. The biological children of the first spouse to die in a blended family. There’s plenty more. However, they all result from a lack of candid discussions before parents die.

A study by a financial services company found that a third of Americans state they have no plans to discuss their inheritance with their family. This refusal to have open discussions leads not only to litigation but also to lost family relationships.

Members of all generations need to hear from their parents and grandparents what they were thinking when they created their estate plan and decided how to distribute their assets. Even when the conversations are uncomfortable, the results are long-lasting.

For one family, a mother told her granddaughters she wanted them to inherit her diamond rings. She expressed her wishes but never put them into her will. Everything was left to her second husband. Her son knew where she kept the will but never asked to see it. Had he reviewed the will, he would have had an opportunity to remind her of her promise.

Blended families are particularly vulnerable to estate battles, making it even more important to have the inheritance conversation before their parents pass. Solutions include creating a trust, having specific provisions in the will and properly titling accounts and real estate assets to ensure that the property passes to the heir of your choosing.

The inheritance conversation is not a one-and-done discussion. Once children are mature enough, it’s good to start talking with them about financial matters. Business owners need to discuss succession plans, especially if their children are in the family business. Unexpected events can occur at any age, so waiting until retirement is on the horizon is not a good idea.

These discussions don’t need to happen at Thanksgiving or other family gatherings. Family meetings should be separate from family events. If family members live far apart, meeting via video might have to substitute. The important thing is to have ongoing discussions in whatever way works for the family.

Finally, one way to avoid surprises is to give heirs all or part of their inheritance with warm hands, that is, while you are still living. This gives parents peace of mind knowing that their children have already received their inheritances.

Reference: The Wall Street Journal (April 6, 2024) “Hash Out the Inheritance Now, or Fight Your Family Later”

Have You had the Estate Planning Talk with Your Adult Children?

It’s easier to move a difficult matter forward when you have a plan, which is true when talking about estate planning with your family. Getting into the conversation can sometimes feel awkward. However, it’s best for all concerned to have open and honest discussions, according to a recent article, “How to Discuss Estate Planning with Your Family,” from Kiplinger.

If you have an estate plan, including a last will and testament, advanced care directive, living will, HIPAA release forms and other estate planning documents, make sure your family knows what documents you have prepared and where they are. Show them where your legal and financial records are kept, whether on your computer or filing cabinet.

Consider a kind of estate planning “boot camp” with the appropriate family members. They may not understand what a will does, how a trust works, etc. The more information they have about financial and legal matters, the better decisions they can make.

Connect family members with your advisors, including your estate planning attorney, financial advisor and CPA, so that they can work together after your passing.

How well do you expect family members to respond to this conversation? You know your family best, so be prepared—the daughter is prone to tears, and the son makes sarcastic comments—they will not suddenly become different people when the topic is estate planning.

The loss of a parent is a highly emotional time, and grief doesn’t always bring out the best in people. If you left a large inheritance and your children weren’t expecting it, will they know what to do? Or, if they expected a large inheritance and you decided to donate most of your wealth to charity, would they become embroiled in a legal battle with an organization that meant a lot to you? Having these difficult discussions in advance is better than leaving a legacy of surprise for loved ones.

If your children will be receiving different kinds of inheritance from you based on their individual circumstances, it is a great kindness to talk with them in advance about your reasoning. They may understand, or they may not. However, you may be able to prevent resentment and possibly litigation if they have an opportunity to learn about it from you directly while you are still living and when they can still ask questions.

Another topic requiring discussion is who you name to serve as executor. It may not be the oldest sibling, but it shouldn’t be the one who isn’t able to manage money or responsibilities. In some cases, a professional or family friend is better suited to serve as executor. Talk with your children about this decision to prevent any resentment between them.

These are not easy conversations, and they should be presented as ongoing discussions, so siblings or other family members feel they are included and respected. Your legacy and your family deserve as much.

Reference: Kiplinger (March 23, 2024) “How to Discuss Estate Planning with Your Family”

Estate Planning for a Taxing Inheritance

Estate planning should address tax planning to accomplish several goals. In addition to minimizing tax liability, tax-sensitive estate planning can ensure family members inheriting wealth are given a helpful asset, not a costly one. A recent article, “Inheriting Tax Liabilities” from Financial Advisor, explains how this can be done.

A beneficiary inheriting a pre-tax traditional IRA has to pay full state and federal income tax on any withdrawals, which must occur within ten years. Demographics show this inheritance most often occurs when the heirs are in their careers' highest tax income bracket, making it a double tax whammy.

There’s no step-up in basis for a traditional IRA. A $3 million IRA isn’t a $3 million IRA when it’s inherited. If the person inheriting the IRA is in a high-tax state and is also a high-income earner, they could lose nearly 45% every year when taking their required distributions.

The timeframe for IRA inheritances is tricky. Let’s say a couple works hard and saves in their tax-deferred 401(k) for three decades. When they retire, they roll those savings into traditional IRAs. When the second spouse dies, her children will probably be 55 to 60 years old, when people are usually in their highest earning and taxable years.

Another hitch: inherited IRA distributions can’t be donated to charity or kept in the IRA to be passed along to the heir’s children.

How to address this? It depends.

If there are two adult children and one has more modest wages and resides in a low-tax state, giving the lower-income heir a larger percentage of the IRA will result in a larger after-tax amount. If the other child is a high-income earner, bequeathing after-tax assets may make more sense. The two heirs may end up with the same amount when adjustments are made to their circumstances.

In some instances, it makes sense for the parents to convert traditional IRAs to Roth IRAs and pay the taxes to give heirs the advantages of the Roth IRA. Another strategy is to bequest pre-tax IRA assets to a charity and give heirs tax-free assets.

Think less about equal inheritances and more about adjusting assets to end up with the same spendable savings.

The same adjustments will be helpful when planning for illiquid assets like the family home. Preparing assets like real estate or art collections requires time, and the cost of commissions and marketing can reduce the inheritable value of the assets.

An inheritance is a gift to loved ones, improved by clear-sighted estate planning that considers the individual family’s circumstances in more depth. Review your family’s entire picture with your estate planning attorney so the end results will truly be what you wish.

Reference: Financial Advisor (March 15, 2024) “Inheriting Tax Liabilities”

Can Estate Planning Address ‘Third Generation Curse?’

Have you heard of the “Great Wealth Transfer?” It’s the period when Baby Boomers are projected to pass trillions of dollars to the next generation, according to a recent article from Kiplinger, “How Estate Planning Can Thwart the ‘Third-Generation Curse.’”

The anticipated $84 trillion expected to be bequeathed to Generation X, Millennials, and Gen Z beneficiaries sounds enormous, but the third-generation curse may leave heirs with far less than expected. Often, wealth is earned by one generation, grown by the second generation who witnessed firsthand how hard their parents worked to maintain their wealth, and mismanaged or wasted by the third generation members, who are too far from the original wealth creation to respect it.

Creating or updating an estate plan to protect family wealth from the third-generation curse requires communication between generations centered on the values leading to wealth creation and a financial education on how to preserve and grow wealth.

Many estate plans are structured to address tax planning, but that’s only one aspect of estate planning. Communicating the “why” of the estate plan, including where the money came from, how it has been stewarded over the years, and what needs to happen to protect it, will help beneficiaries have a deeper regard for their inheritance.

Boomer values may differ from their heir’s values, but they may also be similar, as they use different language to describe the same thing. Clarifying these values and communicating with heirs may help to give context to their inheritance and its importance.

Understanding your priorities and values should ideally lead to an estate plan reflecting your wishes. For instance, if the family prizes education, your estate planning attorney may advise you to create a trust to fund advanced education. Such a trust should be accompanied by a letter of intent explaining your wishes and values to both trustees and heirs.

If you’re unsure about mandating the use of funds, you may have your estate planning attorney create a discretionary trust with a similar letter explaining what you’d like them to use the funds for and why it’s important to you. Because circumstances change, the trustee will have the flexibility to distribute the funds as they see fit.

When the estate plan is completed, have a series of conversations with family members about what’s in the plan and why. They don’t need to know every detail, but broad strokes will go a long way in letting them know what you’ve done, your wishes, and your hopes for their future.

Reference: Kiplinger (March 12, 2024) “How Estate Planning Can Thwart the ‘Third-Generation Curse’”

When Should Gift Tax Return Be Filed?

Gift tax returns may be the most misunderstood and overlooked part of estate planning. The first mistake people make, according to the article “Know The Most Misunderstood Part Of Estate Plans: Gift Tax Returns” from Forbes, is not knowing when they do or don’t have to file a gift tax return. Even if a gift you make is tax-free, you might have to file a return anyway. And there are times when you aren’t required to file a gift tax return, but it’s still a good idea to do so.

The gift tax return is IRS Form 709, which can be downloaded from the IRS website at no cost.

In most cases, the IRS can’t take action on an incorrect gift tax return once more than three years have passed since it was originally filed. There are exceptions for fraudulent returns or if a return is either missing information or substantially misstates information.

However, there’s no statute of limitations if you fail to file a gift tax return, and the IRS can raise questions about the transaction at any time. This includes coming after your heirs or your estate after you’ve passed. At that time, your heirs or executor may not have the evidence to prove you complied with the tax law. The IRS would be within its rights to assess not only the gift tax but also penalties and interest for all the years from the date of the gift tax filing to the current date.

For this reason alone, it’s a good idea to file a gift tax return if there’s even the slightest question of whether it’s necessary.

Form 709 has a section for reporting “non-gift transactions.” Some estate planning attorneys recommend taking advantage of this to start the statute of limitations clock ticking and prevent the IRS from recharacterizing your gift years later as a taxable gift.

Consider this especially when you sell assets to a trust or shift assets from one irrevocable trust to another, known as “decanting” a trust. Consider also filing a gift tax return for a non-gift if you take advantage of the generation-skipping transfer tax exemption through a trust.

Another common mistake is not realizing that certain actions are considered gifts by the IRS, whether in the general sense or not. Let’s say you sell an asset to your children at less than market value. The difference between the selling price and the market value is a gift. So is forgiving or making a loan at a below-market interest rate.

If parents pay bills for adult children, this might be considered a gift if the gifts are valuable or if you also make significant gifts of money or property to the same person in the same year.

A gift tax issue the IRS pays close attention to is valuation. There’s not much question about the value of a publicly traded security, but for many other assets, there’s a lot of room to question the correct value, and the gift tax is based on the asset value at the time the gift is made.

While spouses may make unlimited gifts to each other tax-free, there are times when gifts between spouses must be reported. One time is when the gift is defined in the tax code as a “terminable interest.” Another time is if one spouse is not a U.S. citizen. Gifts to that spouse from the other spouse exceeding a certain amount during the year must be reported on IRS Form 709.

It’s always a good idea to check with your estate planning attorney about when a gift tax return should be filed to protect yourself and your heirs.

Reference: Forbes (Feb. 16, 2024) “Know The Most Misunderstood Part Of Estate Plans: Gift Tax Returns”

Can I Decline an Inherited IRA?

The rules governing inherited Individual Retirement Accounts (IRAs) have changed over the years. They have become even more complex since the passage of the original SECURE Act. The inheritor of an IRA may be required to empty the account and pay taxes on the resulting income within 10 years. In some situations, beneficiaries might choose to execute a Qualified Disclaimer and avoid inheriting the IRA, according to a recent article, “How to Opt Out of Inheriting an IRA” from Think Advisor.

Paying taxes on the distributions could put a beneficiary into a higher tax bracket. In some situations, beneficiaries may want to execute a Qualified Disclaimer and avoid inheriting both the account and the tax consequences associated with the inheritance.

Individuals who use a Qualified Disclaimer are treated as if they never received the property at all. Of course, you don’t enjoy the benefits of the inheritance but don’t receive the tax bill.

Suppose the decedent’s estate is large enough to trigger the federal estate tax. In that case, generation-skipping transfer tax issues may come into play, depending on whether there are any contingent beneficiaries.

An experienced estate planning attorney is needed to ensure that the disclaimer satisfies all requirements and is treated as a Qualified Disclaimer. It must be in writing, and it must be irrevocable. It also needs to align with any state law requirements.

The person who wishes to disclaim the IRA must provide the IRA custodian or the plan administrator with written notice within nine months after the latter of two events: the original account owner’s death or the date the disclaiming party turns 21 years old. The disclaiming person must also execute the disclaimer before receiving the inherited IRA or any of the benefits associated with the property.

Once the disclaimer is made, the inherited IRA must pass to the remaining beneficiaries without the disclaiming party's involvement. The disclaiming party cannot directly decide who will receive their interests, such as directing the inherited IRA to go to their child. If the disclaiming party’s child is already named as a beneficiary, their interest will be received as intended by that child.

The person inheriting the account must execute the disclaimer before receiving any benefits from the account. Even electing to take distributions will prevent the disclaimer from being effective, even if the person has not received any funds.

In some cases, you may be able to disclaim a portion of the inherited IRA. However, these are specific cases requiring the experience of an estate planning attorney.

Reference: Think Advisor (Feb. 8, 2024) “How to Opt Out of Inheriting an IRA”

Should You Talk with Loved Ones about Your Estate Plan?

We think of family time as gatherings for holidays and celebrating joyful occasions. However, there are times when the business side of life needs to be addressed. The best time to share your estate plan information with the family is when you are well, mentally and physically, says the article “Financial Focus: Consider family meeting to discuss estate plans” from Vail Daily.

What should your conversation include?

What are your wishes for your estate plan? Do you hope to leave an inheritance for family members, support a family member in need, or create a legacy with a charitable organization? The family meeting is the time to clarify your thoughts with loved ones, especially if there are concerns within the family, such as a special needs member or economic disparities between siblings.

Be prepared for surprises. Your millennial children may be more concerned about you having a secure retirement than an inheritance.

If you have your estate planning documents in order, this is a time to discuss them. If you do not, make an appointment to meet with an experienced estate planning attorney to create a comprehensive plan. Your documents may include a will, a trust, financial power of attorney, health care power of attorney and end-of-life documents. Give your family members a general idea of your wishes, especially for end-of-life matters. This relieves them from having to guess what you would have wanted in times of incapacity or upon your death.

Talk about the roles you wish them to play. You will need to name an executor to administer your estate. They should be asked to take on this role before the time comes. You will also need a trustee and a successor trustee for any trusts. Choosing the right person for these roles involves acknowledging who is more capable—just because one sibling is older does not mean they are the best candidate to serve as executor.

For some families, the best setting for a family meeting is their estate planning attorney’s office. It is a neutral setting and people are less likely to fall into old behavior patterns (including spats) when they are in a professional office.

Let the family know this is not the final discussion about your estate plan. Encourage questions and, if necessary, offer to meet again. If the initial groundwork is set, you will have begun establishing a legacy for yourself and your family.

Reference: Vail Daily (Jan. 25, 2024) “Financial Focus: Consider family meeting to discuss estate plans”

What Is the Best Method of Disinheriting Someone?

There is a myth about being able to exclude someone from receiving an inheritance by leaving the person a single dollar as a token inheritance amount. The myth is as pervasive as it is incorrect, according to an article, “The art and science to disinheriting someone,” from Coeur d’Alene/Post Falls Press.

This myth often shows up when people try to create their own wills. The theory is that by leaving a single dollar, the heir cannot make a case to a judge that their parents forgot to include them in the will, and doing so was an unintended oversight, one the judge can fix.

While this method doesn’t work, a well-written will can avoid the possibility of presenting an argument about an heir being forgotten. The person to be disinherited needs to be identified clearly, as well as the relationship of the person to the person making the will, and specific language goes into the will explaining the person is in no way, shape, or form to receive any inheritance from the estate.

The practice of leaving a token one-dollar inheritance to someone you want to exclude from the estate actually creates more problems than it solves. By leaving a token gift, you’ve made the person a beneficiary of the will or trust estate, thereby giving them rights they would not otherwise have had.

The token one dollar now means the person is within their legal rights to require notice of proceedings and accountings of finances of the probate or trust estate and has other rights unique to estate beneficiaries.

In short, the person you presented with a one-dollar inheritance can create a lot of trouble for the executor.

Another strategy when a person wishes to make an heir less likely to challenge the distribution of property is to use a no-contest provision in the will. The no-contest provision needs to align with the laws of the state. However, the overall concept is that anyone challenging the will shall not receive an inheritance and may have to pay legal fees for contesting the will.

A version of this is to give the person a certain amount of inheritance, enough that they wouldn’t want to lose it and use a no-contest provision. They have a choice—accept the inheritance they were offered or challenge it and risk losing everything.

Experienced estate planning attorneys have seen many different situations where someone wished to leave a family member out of the will. Have a candid discussion with your estate planning attorney about your situation, including the history of the person you wish to leave out of your will, and they’ll find a solution to resolve the issue.

Reference: Coeur d’Alene/Post Falls Press (Jan. 14. 2024) “The art and science to disinheriting someone”

Prevent Difficulties in Probate with Advance Planning

If you think gathering your papers, passwords, logins, account information and estate planning documents is a challenging task, consider your heirs trying to do it after you’ve passed and while they are grieving your loss. By preparing all the information they’ll need, you’ll make their inheritance process as easy as possible, says a recent article from Next Avenue, “6 Ways To Save Your Heirs from a Painful Probate.”

A List of Passwords for Hardware, Online Accounts and More Our cellphones, tablets, computers, online accounts and other technology all hold important information. If your executor tries to access information and accounts, they’ll need more than your passwords. If you have accounts with two-factor authentication, for instance, they’ll need to be able to access your email and/or cellphone to access other digital assets. The list should include things like social media usernames and passwords. The information must be kept somewhere safe where a spouse or executor can find it. Some tech platforms allow you to name a legacy contact with the right to access accounts after you pass. A password manager system might be helpful. However, this may add another layer of frustration for non-technical people.

List All Assets and Accounts with Contact Information. Whether you use a spreadsheet or a notebook, this is crucial information. Make sure to include investment accounts, checking and savings accounts, 401(k)s, IRAs, pension accounts, brokerage accounts, etc. Provide contact information for your estate planning attorney, accountant and financial advisor.

The information must be well organized because it will be a lot of data. Your executor will also need the accounts for running your household, paying utilities, mortgage, cable, etc. The same goes for health insurance, Medicare or Medicaid information, life insurance policies, car insurance and deeds to your home and car.

Tell the Executor and/or Heirs Where Your Information is Located. One estate planning attorney reports receiving a few monthly calls from grieving heirs who have no idea where the estate planning documents are, who takes care of the financial accounts, or how to access these accounts. Sometimes, the calls come from people who aren’t even clients but are hoping there might be some special resource known to estate planning attorneys to provide this information. There is no such thing.

Plan for the Unexpected A significant part of estate planning is planning for financial and healthcare decisions while you are still living. A living will details whether or not you want to be kept alive by heroic or artificial means, and a power of attorney authorizes someone to make decisions on your behalf. Without a POA, the person may recover from their medical emergency to find a financial mess of late bills, missed insurance premiums, or a host of issues that could have been dealt with on their behalf. Without healthcare surrogate documents and discussions of your wishes in difficult health situations, the family will need to make difficult healthcare decisions in highly stressful situations.

If the proper documents are not in place, the family must go to court to have someone named a guardian, who can then make health care decisions for you. The same process will be needed to have someone manage your financial affairs, called conservatorship. These are expensive and invasive court processes that can easily be avoided.

Talk with your estate planning attorney and family members to plan for the future. You’ll all feel better knowing that you’ll all be prepared when difficulties arise.

Reference: Next Avenue (Jan. 9, 2024) “6 Ways To Save Your Heirs from a Painful Probate”

How Can Older Adults Not Get Scammed?

Everyone becomes more vulnerable to scams and financial abuse as we age into our later years, reports a recent article from Kiplinger, “Seven Ways to Protect Older Adults from Financial Abuse.” Older people are swindled out of more than $3 billion every year, and more than 3.5 million people are victims of financial exploitation every year. Protecting financial well-being requires prevention, which also applies to younger adults.

Maintain a heightened awareness level. Talk with family members about the potential risks from thieves, online and in real life. Know that exploitation by family members is just as likely, sometimes more so, than by strangers.

Maintain open communication. Just like meeting with an estate planning attorney regularly to ensure legal affairs are in order, check in with trusted loved ones about their financial status regularly. Talking about money among families can be challenging, depending on the family’s history and dynamics. Nevertheless, an open and ongoing dialogue will help with early detection and prevention of financial abuse.

Arrange for a Durable Power of Attorney. The person selected as a Power of Attorney (POA) should be trustworthy and capable of managing finances in case of incapacity. Talk with your estate planning attorney about whether you need to apply certain limitations for your POA or if it should be a broad document. If you are a “solo ager,” you may want to ask your estate planning attorney to act as your POA.

Make sure your estate planning is in order. Estate planning is an essential area of protection for people of any age, especially older adults. If your will, trust, or estate planning documents have not been updated in more than four years, it’s time to make an appointment with your attorney. There are many legal options for safeguarding assets and ensuring that your wishes are followed.

Monitor accounts regularly. Reviewing monthly statements from investments, banks and other accounts is essential for protecting assets. A few simple steps can avert fraud, including freezing credit, setting stricter controls on social media and setting phones to send unknown callers to voicemail.

Signing up for financial account and credit monitoring helps detect irregularities or unauthorized transactions. Allowing a trusted loved one to monitor accounts may make sense, depending on support needs and comfort level.

Safeguard personal information. If you’re using your birthday or your pet’s name as a password, it’s time for new passwords. The digital world has increased risks, and endless scammers with highly technical skills exist. Consider using two-factor authentication where possible—you can’t get into your account until you confirm with a code sent to your phone, text, or email. It is an added step and effective in protecting accounts.

Stay Up to Date on Scams. Financial scams come and go in waves, like fashion. Some people still receive emails about having been chosen by an overseas family who needs to bring huge wealth to America. Others have been targeted by romantic scammers on dating websites. There are Medicare scams, charity scams, IRS impersonation scams, sweepstakes scams and grandparent scams. In other words, thieves try to access accounts and funds in many ways. Be vigilant!

Reference: Kiplinger (Jan. 8, 2024) “Seven Ways to Protect Older Adults from Financial Abuse”